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If you agreed to pay whatever bill he charged you owe the money. You only can get out of it if it was contingent on the actual collection of the money. But if you do not have assets or money you can't pay it anyway.

Your quesiton is a bit confusing.  If you have a signed court order (that the judge signed or that your ex-wife signed) that allows you to lower alimony when she moves, and you did that, you are following the court order.  Although the language maybe self serving, if she consented to it, that's now biding.  

Usually, if you find a job with medical insurance and discontinue using your ex-spouse's coverage, you cannot go back on that coverage if the job ends.  the terms of the divorce form bed and board may be slightly different than a "regular" divorce, and there is always the possibility that you can stipulate what coverage you would be entitled to receive.  However, it is not typical that an ex-spouse remains on the coverage.