Sierra Blanca, TX Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

My advice to you is to seek a consultation with an attorney as soon as possible. Even you you decide not to hire an attorney, you need to understand your rights. From statements and the questions you are asking, it is obvious you do not understand some basics about this process that even a 30 minute consultation with an attorney would provide. Proceeding without this advice could be far more costly than paying for the consultation.  Most attorneys offer an initial consultation at a discount and some (although you often get what you pay for) offer a consult for free. 

Short answer:  Probably, yes.   Whatever retirement was earned by either party during the marriage is subject to division by the judge at divorce.   This means that the retirement you earned prior to the marriage is your separate property and the retirement earned during the marriage is community property.  Also, any retirement your spouse earned during the marriage is also subject to division as community property.  Generally speaking, if you were married for 10 years while you were on active duty, she would be awarded 25% of your disposable retired pay.   If you have waived part of your retired pay (for example to receive VA disability pay), she would not be entitled to a share of the VA disability.  Fault in the breakup of the marriage is one basis by which the court can award a disproportionate share of the community property to the wronged party.

How was the vehicle titled? In your name alone, in both your names or in just his name? What other property is involved? In Idaho, you each are entitled to 50% of the community property and 50% of the community debt. You need to work through all of the property and debt to figure out if one owes the other. So, it kind of depends as to whether the car was community property or separate property and how it is titled will give some evidence of that.