Rosharon, TX Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

Your fact statement is too confusing to be certain what the issue is. But, as a rule all property issues decided in a divorce case are final and permanent, meaning decisions cannot be changed later. The state cannot do anything other than what a court order requires, even if you mean that the "state" is also the employer or the retirement plan administrator. A QDRO only applies to one single, specified retirement plan that existed at the time of divorce.

If the parties have an agreement, a divorce can be completed in a couple months.  If the parties disagree about the extent of their property, custody, child support, visitation, child support, division of property and division of debts, it could takea couple years.  

A filing will be dismissed by the court for want of prosecution (DWOP) by the court's own motion usually 6 months to a year from the original filing if there is no affirmative action by the parties, depending on the court.