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First, immediately call up all your credit card companies and remove him as an authorized user, and tell them to cancel the cards and issue you new ones with different numbers. Then, tell him he owes you the money he took as cash advances, and that you want it back immediately. Then kick him out. Since he's got a kid, give him till the end of the school year, if necessary. Then file for divorce. You say he's verbally abusive- if you're afraid of him, and you have grounds, get an order of protection in criminal or family court.  Since New York has no fault divorce, divorce makes more sense than annulment. You don't need a reason to get a divorce, but you do need to prove grounds for an annulment. It probably won't be very time consuming because without your credit cards it's doubtful that your gold digger hubby will be able to afford a good lawyer. Go with a divorce, not an annulment.  

You should absolutely consult an attorney. Many lawyers take credit card deposits. You may also qualify for a lawyer through groups like inMotion or New York Legal Assistance Group. If you cannot or will not get involved in your case, he will get the divorce on his terms. Try also calling his lawyer (the lawyer's name should be on the papers). Tell his lawyer what you are asking for and that you object - and follow up with a written letter to the lawyer and the Court.  Good luck.

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